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A Very In-Depth Look at Happiness
Key perspectives around happiness, our chase and thirst for it - and the detrimental consequences for us.
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Can You FIX Your Nervous System?
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Looking at some misconceptions about the nervous system in relation to how OCD operates. Get in touch with us on WhatsApp: wa.me/message/2JZE25AI3UCNA1 Website: www.ocdrecovery.com Follow us on social media: Instagram: ocdrecoverycom? Twitter: ocdrecovery UA-cam: ua-cam.com/users/OCDRecovery TikTok: vm.tiktok.com/ZSewDHMUn/ Join our online OCD community dedicated to re...
Overcoming Procrastination & OCD
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Overcoming Procrastination & OCD
Acceptance vs Ignoring
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Acceptance vs Ignoring
How OCD Operates
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How OCD Operates
Compulsive Dating Apps Usage
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Compulsive Dating Apps Usage
Key HOCD Perspectives & Beliefs
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Key HOCD Perspectives & Beliefs
Trying to Focus & FLOW
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Trying to Focus & FLOW
Fear of DEATH
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Fear of DEATH
How to Identify YOUR Irrational Beliefs
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How to Identify YOUR Irrational Beliefs
Fear of Making MISTAKES
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Fear of Making MISTAKES
Why You Are Finding Recovery Hard
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Why You Are Finding Recovery Hard
Recovery Can Make You a Better Problem-Solver!
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Recovery Can Make You a Better Problem-Solver!
Are You Accepting Your Thoughts & Engaging?
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Are You Accepting Your Thoughts & Engaging?
"OCD Almost Ended My Marriage!"
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"OCD Almost Ended My Marriage!"
OCD Recovery & Uncertainty
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OCD Recovery & Uncertainty
Why You Are Still Anxious
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Why You Are Still Anxious
The OCD Merry Go Round
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The OCD Merry Go Round
STOP Trying to Work It Out!
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STOP Trying to Work It Out!
Breaking Down CORE Fears
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Breaking Down CORE Fears
Do Bad People Exist?
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Do Bad People Exist?
"I Can't Concentrate & Stay Present"
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"I Can't Concentrate & Stay Present"
Leaving Physical Anxiety Symptoms
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Leaving Physical Anxiety Symptoms
Sensorimotor OCD & Fear of Failure
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Sensorimotor OCD & Fear of Failure
Acceptance is NOT Agreement
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Acceptance is NOT Agreement
Mild Disputing vs. Powerful Disputing
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Mild Disputing vs. Powerful Disputing
Limerence & ROCD
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Limerence & ROCD
Advice For Friends & Family
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Advice For Friends & Family
Intrusive Urges Feel Very Real
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Intrusive Urges Feel Very Real
Maintaining Recovery & Baseline Peace
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Maintaining Recovery & Baseline Peace

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  • @tig9495
    @tig9495 Годину тому

    I feel like a god

  • @henryzhao4622
    @henryzhao4622 3 години тому

    Tourettic OCD is treatment resistant

    • @OCDRecovery
      @OCDRecovery 3 години тому

      @@henryzhao4622 no it isn’t, it’s a very common one

    • @henryzhao4622
      @henryzhao4622 2 години тому

      @@OCDRecovery please tell me how you stop the premonitory urge in the body that feels like it’s about to explode, especially if it’s a 24/7 one related to no specific trigger, just a constant Tourette’s urge to fix anything and everything. Please don’t tell me to just sit there with it. You guys are brilliant but there is a constant theme of a slight lack of humility, and not acknowledging that some of us with severe Tourette’s that relates to compulsions CANT ERP/distress tolerance our way out of it. Just as someon with Tourette’s can’t stop hitting themselves in the face sometimes no matter how much they do acceptance techniques. If you guys want to take a brilliant program to the next level, that’s my 2 cents - there is a neurological element to many types of OCD that is unlike any other psychiatric condition. Notice how the DBS deep brain stimulation that treats Parkinson’s and essential tremors ONLY treats OCD and no other psychiatric condition.

  • @adityasivadas2139
    @adityasivadas2139 3 години тому

    Hey Nik really enjoying the content in the video. I just need advise in a situation where your anxiety is so high that you cannot focus on a task. I know procrastination on a task is not the answer here but do you have any strategies to combat this? Thanks!

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick 49 хвилин тому

      Hey Aditya! I wish I had a better answer than the one I am about to give you lol, I truly had to force myself over and over, I treated it like building a muscle. I made myself do the necessary things even when my body was screaming. It wasn't easy but long term it was definitely the way to go.

  • @michalkolasinski
    @michalkolasinski 8 годин тому

    HOCD is a camouflaged name for SSAD (homosexuality). "Treatment" should be banned.

  • @moisessilva409
    @moisessilva409 13 годин тому

    Hey Nick, love the work you do here! I have a question. Ive been dealing with ocd themes switching up (existential, sensorimotor earworm and breathing, moral scrupulosity) for some years and Im so used to mental compulsions. I avoid, control, distract myself and I do this because acceptance for me opens room for hypervigilance of thoughts, kinda like I cant automatically and efforlessly think things. My ocd theme drops from whatever it was and latches on the act of acceptance as soon as I think of it, and makes me stay panfully hypervigilant of thoughts, just like in another form of sensorimotor, so I engage in control, distractions to make it go away. Now I dont know if this is a byproduct of a change in behaviour ( from control, to that I dont really need to control thoughts or to even know what im thinking about) and so the mind blasts me with resistence and tricks like this or if this is forcing acceptance aswell. Sorry for it being kinda long worded

  • @axbx7139
    @axbx7139 13 годин тому

    So that's why I do not like any project I begin to do...

  • @axbx7139
    @axbx7139 14 годин тому

    DAMN MAN YOU FAST. But I cherish your words. I'll try to keep them in mind to not forget this during stress

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick 13 годин тому

      Thanks man! Sometimes I need to slow down my tone lmao! But I am glad the video was helpful!

  • @GodlessPhilosopher
    @GodlessPhilosopher 15 годин тому

    Masks and shirts

  • @julioserrano8730
    @julioserrano8730 17 годин тому

    Absolutely. Thank you

  • @areyounuts111
    @areyounuts111 18 годин тому

    Hi i am trying to contact ocd recovery, is there an email address i can contact for pricing and setting up a recovery plan for 1 on 1s etc?

  • @Dub_97
    @Dub_97 20 годин тому

    You can have REAL same sex sexual attraction arousal and worry “do does that mean I’m gay ” no such thing as false attractions. Idk where this false attraction came from all because the person experiencing doesn’t want to experience it makes it false ? No. At the end of the day the feelings are real and they’re flowing through your body. So yes you can still experience same sex sexual arousal.. and now people obsessed now does this mean I’m gay. Which both can be true you can be or not.

  • @josephshay8830
    @josephshay8830 22 години тому

    Hey Nick i had a question...should I be actively trying to have the thoughts that scare me in order to sit with the thoughts/feelings exasterbate the thoughts or should I be going about my life and when the thoughts come agree with them and go about my business?

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick 19 годин тому

      Hey Joseph - It's a different combination of both together. We are going about our day just experiencing them when they happen, which will happen a lot as you and I know. But! We don't need to agree with them as this is a form of unhealthy engagement.

  • @jenfox5870
    @jenfox5870 22 години тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @lynnslavenski
    @lynnslavenski 23 години тому

    This is a challenge for me. Helped me when you said give up the fight on a moment to moment basis and ask why doing certain things. Thank you for all you do

  • @gautamdas2844
    @gautamdas2844 День тому

    I m suffering from sensorimotor ocd and hyperawareness .while walking I feel I will fall,while moving my head I feel like my head is vibrating nd someone is holding my head strongly.and my consciousness is focused in my brain nd head and I can't focus in anything else. I m unable to understand that what is my actual compulsion.please help me out sir

  • @gautamdas2844
    @gautamdas2844 День тому

    I m suffering from sensorimotor ocd and hyperawareness .while walking I feel I will fall,while moving my head I feel like my head is vibrating nd someone is holding my head strongly.and my consciousness is focused in my brain nd head and I can't focus in anything else. I m unable to understand that what is my actual compulsion.please help me out sir

  • @henryzhao4622
    @henryzhao4622 День тому

    At some point it can be purely physical. Just like my Tourette’s, all the techniques in the world might not be enough o fundamentally manage it if it’s severe. Give yourself some grace. Do your best but if you need to, be open to medication or surgery because the brain is plastic but not infinitely so.

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      Giving ourselves grace and compassion is definitely key Henry, good point.

    • @henryzhao4622
      @henryzhao4622 День тому

      @@OCDrecoveryNick any experience with tourettic ocd? Love the channel but I find that for myself, the typical OCD strategies help but can’t touch on the fundamental tourettic/premonitory urge elements

  • @keshavmehta6305
    @keshavmehta6305 День тому

    Sir I am squeezing my forehead to focus that is cousing a lot of strain in head

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      Hey Kesha - If you're actually squeezing your head as a compulsion this will need to come down.

  • @lynnslavenski
    @lynnslavenski День тому

    Excellent video nick……I definitely overthink

  • @Sarah-c8v
    @Sarah-c8v День тому

    Hey! Could you make a video on self harm ocd?´

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      Yep! It might take me a week or so but I can do that!

    • @Sarah-c8v
      @Sarah-c8v День тому

      @@OCDrecoveryNick thanks a lot ☺

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick 22 години тому

      @@Sarah-c8v you're very welcome Sarah!

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch День тому

    We can’t trust we just need answers.

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch День тому

    What do you have to say regarding people who are sleepwalking through life, living like a dead robot, beating around a dead horse? Because I feel like that many times and I only seem to get recovery done when I feel alive and try my best to be conscious.

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch День тому

    Me too. I reached this point

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch День тому

    Very helpful advice only if me in 2015 would have got this tip

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch День тому

    Only if we instantly got the feeling or feedback of getting better the whole process would be a lot easier. Too bad that it has to be left uncertain.

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch День тому

    The biggest problem I am currently facing is knowing and understanding the real view of myself and life and world and others.

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      Hey Mega - Getting comfortable with not really knowing the 'true self' is critical for us. We are a constantly evolving creature, never really static, always changing.

    • @MegaSaanch
      @MegaSaanch 17 годин тому

      @@OCDrecoveryNick thanks for answering!

  • @dco1019
    @dco1019 День тому

    After shaking most of my devastating obsessions... for me personally, I've come to realize that my nervous system is just that... it's kind of nervous, easily triggered, and then persistent. I don't think I can change its core, but I don't know if it's like that for everybody. In terms of OCD, I'm just vigilant that things don't get a hold of me. Like, I'd catch myself going back to something (like compulsive checking) where I shouldn't and then don't do that, overcome a bit of micro-stress, and that's it. Or, like recently, I noticed that despite not having any major OCD problems, I do fill in my general tendency to become anxious with time on my phone. It's funny because it didn't even register as such. When I dealt with the somatic and dr/dp stuff, I knew full well that I was trying to overload/distract my mind with my phone, but now reasonably trouble-free, I didn't even notice. Guess that's how things creep back in, huh? It occurred to me when I restarted with nicotine pouches and at night my sleep suffered and more unrest in the nervous system. "Like damn, I still use this phone to keep me calm on some level." Then right there, I catch it and start going back to laying in the dark (after reading or watching the final thing on my phone) just like I did before to deal with my previous issues, and the problem dissipated. Also, I noticed something there that was interesting... just the willingness and intent to use discomfort (going back to the darkness and not stare at a screen in this case) as a means to 'break the spell' so to say is strangely comforting and helpful within itself. I don't know if that is because I walked this path before or the bravery shown to yourself somehow unlocks something. Long story short, to keep my own nervous system as calm as can be, I correct myself where I identify unhealthy patterns emerging. Which is less of a battle than you would imagine actually... it's not that hard and it serves its purpose of keeping me good

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      Hey Dco - I think you'd be surprised what happens the further into recovery you get. You can achieve more peace. Healthy habits are key for sure but as long as it's not coming from 'I must do this in order to obtain peace', that's the usual problem.

  • @diegogalvan7404
    @diegogalvan7404 День тому

    But never use this techniques as a tool to get rid of nothing, simply do It without expectations

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      100% I put myself into situations that can have positive outcomes for my life but I never expect certain outcomes. Takes time and practice but it's achievable.

    • @diegogalvan7404
      @diegogalvan7404 23 години тому

      @@OCDrecoveryNick totally agree , thanks for your contributions

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick 22 години тому

      @@diegogalvan7404 You're very welcome Diego!

  • @etidubief6751
    @etidubief6751 День тому

    Is it just me or do the intsive thoughts tell you you want the other side to score and that you cba with the limbs when my side score one of the most annoying things because I’m still paying and traveling great distances for this game week in week out I’ll never stop but I would love to work on keeping these thoughts away from

  • @diegogalvan7404
    @diegogalvan7404 День тому

    There is a relaxation techniques that doing proprerly and constantly are very efective and helpful

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      Absolutely - As long as it's not coming from 'I must do this in order to remain calm', that's the problem.

  • @Anna-sx7hb
    @Anna-sx7hb День тому

    So helpful ❤

  • @markosgiannelis751
    @markosgiannelis751 День тому

    Hi sam, what team do you support? I'm a man united fan

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch День тому

    Thanks so much for this

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch День тому

    Life structure can turn into ritualistic compulsions for people who aren’t well versed or further off in recovery. I think it’s better to go with the flow as structures can often become the areas of certainty and control

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      Hey mega - It depends on the person. More often than not and I mean 95% of sufferers need much more focused life structure as theirs is usually quite poor.

    • @MegaSaanch
      @MegaSaanch 17 годин тому

      @@OCDrecoveryNick I see it could be. I believe I see structures in very all or nothing sense and maybe my Autism impacts it as well..

  • @giancaime5913
    @giancaime5913 День тому

    david attenborough, legend

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      That's him! What an awesomely calming voice lol

  • @sunset33533
    @sunset33533 День тому

    I had to learn to use mindfulness meditation to relieve some ocd symptoms. I still use that book called 30 Days to Stop Obsessing by Harper Daniels sometimes, it has simple exercises I like.

  • @tig9495
    @tig9495 День тому

    Yeah once I see something I’m the news I won’t be able to stop for like a week or 2

  • @garyportugal8035
    @garyportugal8035 День тому

    very useful and to the point.

  • @ivannovoselac3518
    @ivannovoselac3518 День тому

    I am convinced every morning that i am failure, no family no life, just work. Complete failure. Some times that thoughts wakes me up at night and no sleep anymore. As day pass by, that thoughts are not present or very little. I have gad but it sounds like ocd to me. Even if it is ocd or not that thoughts is all true anyway. 🤷‍♂️

    • @lesliemarchelli3608
      @lesliemarchelli3608 10 годин тому

      Life is a hard journey and I too feel like a failure at times but remember it’s never too late to try and better yourself :) And remember to be kind to yourself as well (I know, easier said than done 😅)

    • @ivannovoselac3518
      @ivannovoselac3518 8 годин тому

      @@lesliemarchelli3608 thank you!

  • @Anna-sx7hb
    @Anna-sx7hb День тому

    What if my ocd latched onto procrastination? For example, "procrastination is terrible and worst. Since im doing it, i cant accept it" 💀🫤 thats so trickyyyyy

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      Hey Anna! It would just be the opposite! You'll need to lean into doing things slower, feel the discomfort of not finishing things and work on the belief surrounding potentially being a failure (I must do this NOW!)

    • @Anna-sx7hb
      @Anna-sx7hb День тому

      @@OCDrecoveryNick yess definitely gonna work on this. Thank you😊 L

  • @SS-cj3mu
    @SS-cj3mu День тому

    Amazing video!!! I related to 100% of this video!!

  • @Ecclesiastes3v11
    @Ecclesiastes3v11 День тому

    My 30 year old son refuses to get help. I can see he has ocd/scrupulosity and managed to find a therapist but he refuses to speak with him. He argues, shouts at me, blasphemes, acts completely mental saying hes going to hell. Its terrifying. Yet, he manages to speak with his old school friends as if nothing is wrong. I'm not well through it, I'm suffering from his behaviour. How can I encourage him to get the help he needs

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      Hey - This is a really tough situation, I wish I had a better answer because I put my wife through the same thing. All we can do is try and suggest but unfortunately we can't change anyone. I wish I had a better answer.

    • @Ecclesiastes3v11
      @Ecclesiastes3v11 День тому

      @@OCDrecoveryNick no we can't change others but I'm terrified he'll get to a stage where we'll have to call an ambulance to help control him and then he'll have it on his health records. I know he wants to travel and eventually get to Australia to work (which is a crazy OCD thought because he hasn't even started his career here at home yet as he refuses to take any steps toward finding work). But when he gets so angry and starts hitting, punching himself in the face, he's given himself a black eye, I feel we're having to use all our strength to restrain him, its terrifying.

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      @@Ecclesiastes3v11 I am sorry sorry, truly. Well if he ever decides to get further help please have him contact us. I can get him in pronto.

  • @PauletteMontalvo-hy3kg
    @PauletteMontalvo-hy3kg День тому

    would love to hear part 2 of hocd and relationships!

  • @cleovanior
    @cleovanior День тому

    Hi Nick. I'm in a relapse into desrealization, but I'm seeing it as something good for me to use the tools I've learned.

  • @deryasimsek3786
    @deryasimsek3786 День тому

    Femur example got me like 😂😂😂

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      Lol!! It's so true too. Erica hears me make these examples and she just say 'Nick... really?'. Yes really.

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch День тому

    I needed this video so badly. I almost didn’t want to live because of frustration of the “dog barking” or “people chewing too loudly” it made me tortured so badly.

    • @OCDrecoveryNick
      @OCDrecoveryNick День тому

      You're very welcome Mega! I struggled with the same stuff as well!

  • @messpilo
    @messpilo День тому

    Bravo Sam👍